Three Months In

I clearly remember the first time the thought crossed my mind that it might be fun to have a son.

We were driving along, listening to a cd, and Steven Curtis Chapman’s son was singing the Veggie Tales song “I Love My Lips”. In the middle of the song, Steven Curtis Chapman “calls” his son, and while they’re talking on the phone, he says to his dad, “I’m in the studio right now, just workin’ on this song.”

And suddenly, the thought flashed through my mind, “We could have a son, and he could play guitar, or maybe drums, and he’d call me, and we could talk on the phone!”

Ben teases me about this, and talks about how we’ll need to have a music room in our basement for when Everett starts playing drums and is in a band. Really, Everett doesn’t need to play guitar or drums, if he doesn’t want to, but I think it would be funny if he did, and my daydream came true!

In the meantime, he’s making many other dreams come true. He’s the sweetest baby, and we all love him like crazy.

EverettI really thought we would be a family of four. I thought we would do the girl thing, and that’s all we would know.

But I love how Everett balances things out. I love having a whole new dimension added to parenting. I love it that even though before he was born, I couldn’t imagine what it would be like to have him, it’s only taken a short time for everything to change, and now we wonder what we ever did without him.

I love it that our girls are learning what it’s like to have a brother. I love learning what it’s like to have a son. I love watching Ben with Everett.

If Everett is napping while we’re eating supper, I love it that there’s a huge, gaping hole already. We need him with us, otherwise something is just not right!

EverettBefore Everett was born, my sister said, “There’s just something about boys. It’s hard to describe the bond between mothers and sons.” And I smiled and nodded, but really I had no clue.

Some people say gender doesn’t make much difference when a baby is this small, but I disagree. I feel as though everything is different, and it’s amazing. I was so nervous about having a boy, and I couldn’t picture myself having a son, but now that he’s here, he’s just wonderful.:)

Everett and me

8 thoughts on “Three Months In

  1. Oh, I can just imagine. I would be all goo-goo over him too. He is just sooooo cute! I have to chuckle every time I see his sweet smile. I can see resemblance of both girls in him.

  2. He’s just so sparkly-eyed…like he’s got some silly things going on in that little head of his. Lately, I’ve been dreaming of the day when my little guy will start talking. Not that I’m really in such a hurry for him to grow up but, I can hardly wait to hear what’s happening in there. All those fun stages again…so much to look forward to, don’t you think?

  3. Hi, Kendra!I can’t thank you enough for sending me those beautiful pictures of your little son! I love those beautiful big eyes and all those wonderful smiles! Love it!A. Nettie

    Date: Tue, 3 Mar 2015 14:43:35 +0000 To:

  4. I showed my kids the pictures and we discussed how adorable he is. Noah said, “I think he’s tied with Judah.” This is the ULTIMATE compliment, just so you know. Because everyone KNOWS that Judah is the very cutest baby in the whole wide world (we are completely unbiased in our viewpoints)!

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